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Selina Minx is a Pro Domme and lifestyle player with over two decades experience in the BDSM community. Her expertise has been published in Penthouse, New Witch (now Witches and Pagans), Reason Magazine and Old Nick. A featured Kink Academy educator, she has taught workshops and appeared at Domcon LA, the Dr. Susan Block show, HBO, Club Discipline, Rapture, Pantheacon, New Age Tradeshow, Conscious Life Expo and most recently, the Lincoln Center in NYC. Visit Minx Erotica to learn more.

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BDSM Basics: Try Before You Buy

So how can you add this erotic flavor into your sexual repertoire without spending a dime?

BDSM has never been hotter! Although kink has always been around in the dark corners of humanity, it has recently taken the center stage of pop culture. It used to be you could only get your filthy, leather-clad thrills through Rock & Roll, the fashion industry or maybe horror movies. Meeting actual people in the wild who were kinky was...