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Stella Harris is an author, educator, and coach who focuses on sex, kink, communication, and intimacy. Her work explores the complex world of love and lust and strives to help people explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. Stella offers coaching via skype and you can learn more about Stella on her website, www.stellaharris.net or follow her on Twitter @stellaerotica or Instagram @stellaharriserotica.


Beginner’s Guide to Sex Parties

Don't Be Creepy

I recently took a date to their first sex club, and that experience helped me see the place through a beginner’s eyes all over again. I remember how scared I was before my first time; I asked a series of questions in an online forum, everything from what to wear to what to bring with me. From talking to my...