Being in a healthy D/s relationship can be fulfilling but it also takes a lot of work. My name is Goddess Lila and I’m a professional online femdom goddess and humiliatrix. Here are my tips to help you become a better submissive. Trust Your Dom One of the most important aspects of a D/s relationship is trust. It’s natural for...
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Think Before You Kink: Things To Consider Before You Get Kinky
Delving into kinky play with non-monogamous partners can be both exciting and risky. Whether you are playing very casually or with partners you know very well, there are so many things to consider. It’s common knowledge that communication is the key to keeping kink safe, sane and consensual. While spontaneity can be fun, when it comes to kink, you might...
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5 Things You Must Do at a Weekend Kink Event
The best thing about being in a sexually open relationship is finding fun ways to explore our kinks and fetishes together. In the very beginning of our relationship, our exploration was limited to watching porn together. After awhile, we started sharing our kinky fantasies and finding ways to make a lot of them come true. Two years ago, we started...
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What is Squirting; and How I Taught Myself to Do It
‘Squirting’ is synonymous with female ejaculation, and has been the subject of much scrutiny and controversy in sexology for many years now. This is, of course, despite being nothing new to women. Female ejaculation has been noted in history dating back to 300 BC in the writings of Aristotle and Hippocrates. In ancient Asia, female ejaculation was common and therefore...
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Epic Playtime: Sex Toys You Need to Be Using
Sex toys can help to spice up your relationship if things have gone stale, or perhaps just to add in some different sensations you hadn’t thought of before. I’ll go over a few of my favorite sex toys that you need to be using in your sex life, whether it’s by yourself, with a partner or in group play. Let’s...
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Beginner’s Guide to Sex Parties
I recently took a date to their first sex club, and that experience helped me see the place through a beginner’s eyes all over again. I remember how scared I was before my first time; I asked a series of questions in an online forum, everything from what to wear to what to bring with me. From talking to my...
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BDSM Basics: Try Before You Buy
BDSM has never been hotter! Although kink has always been around in the dark corners of humanity, it has recently taken the center stage of pop culture. It used to be you could only get your filthy, leather-clad thrills through Rock & Roll, the fashion industry or maybe horror movies. Meeting actual people in the wild who were kinky was...
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A Munch: It’s More Than You Think
So you have decided to explore your kinky side. Maybe you have been doing so for a while with a partner(s) or maybe you have always known you were kinky but never found anyone to share it with. Whether you are single or in a relationship finding a community of people where you can build friendships, learn and maybe even...
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Party Planning: Getting Ready for Your First Sexy Play Party Experience!
So, it’s finally time – you’re at the point where you’re ready to check out that swingers party, or BDSM club, or sexy event that you’ve been dreaming about. Are you nervous? I hope you are, at least a little bit, because that means that you want it to go well - you want to make sure that you enjoy...
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Toys, Toys, Everywhere You Look There’s Toys
So you’ve watched a few movies, read a few books and thought, “Hm, that BDSM stuff looks like it might be fun. But how do we start?” Dipping your toe in the BDSM pool is an intriguing thought. The first thing you need to know is BDSM is first, and foremost, a power exchange between two, or more, people. The...
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