New to the Swingers Lifestyle?

Are You New to the Swingers Lifestyle
Source: Don Stewart
Source: Don Stewart

Many who are new to the lifestyle seem to seek swinging partners who are at their same level of experience.

Of course I always advise that one should seek what makes them comfortable but a first swinging encounter may be much easier with others who are more experienced.

Certainly never proceed into anything that makes you uncomfortable regardless of the experience of those you are with. However, someone more experienced can take the lead in helping a positive swinging experience occur.

As with any swinging encounter, there should be a mutual connection among all involved. If you have that mutual connection, don’t allow the level of swinging experience to halt your interest. Simply allow events to happen naturally.

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11 Comments on New to the Swingers Lifestyle?

Bill and Susan said : Guest Report Subscribe 8 months ago

We are new and looking for professionals, discreet folks. Please, reach out. We are in fine shape and respectful of others.

Noob269 said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

For those who are new (or those hosting home parties) there is a new series on Netflix called Real Life Wife Swap. It may be useful to noobs (terminology, rules, etc) and may offer ideas for those hosting. Hope this helps

SwingTowns said : administrator Report Subscribe 2 years ago

@Rafael, if you are looking for swingers in Medford, Wi, there are a bunch on SwingTowns:

seabird said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

It seems to me that the majority of couples have a bI female and are looking for a similar couple or a single female. So how the heck does a solo guy get into the lifestyle?

J said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

Hi, we're new to this lifestyle, but we wanted to try threesome first. Then, maybe try swing in the future. Our concern is that we're deaf couple. We are afraid to step forward to start due to communicate barrier. Has any couple experience with a deaf couple in the past? It would much, help us to know what to expect! Thanks!

GuyForDolls said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

Single guys seem to be the bottom caste in the lifestyle. How can us SWM elevate our standing? I mean besides the obvious. ?

Mike & Cindy said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

We love the swinging lifestyle

Rafael said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

how do I find swingers in Medford where I live

Swamprat416 said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

I am willing to go with experienced or inexperienced partner(S) but totally agree an experienced partner may bring more joy and excitement to the first timers trip to swinging.

Carmen and rhonda said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

We r new we just don't how to meet others if we can like to have something happen in r home for the first time

MandL1995 said : Guest Report Subscribe 2 years ago

What we both look for in another couple is likeness to our own lifestyle. .in every way! We take our time to talk to them, maybe exchange numbers and chat to see whats next! Really the for us is be totally upfront with each other..No secrets..No drama...No jealousy!

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