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Have you been looking for ways to connect with new swingers in your area, but just haven’t figured out how? A swinger meet & greet is a great way to get started!

These low-pressure parties allow singles and couples in the lifestyle to get together, mingle, and get to know one another. Unlike play parties, meet & greets are gatherings without a heavy sexual component. There are no real expectations here. Meet & greets mostly serve as simple, fun gatherings. But they can be difficult to find. 

In this article, we’re sharing everything you need to know about hosting one yourself. We’ll be sharing everything you should know about a swinger meet & greet, and some necessary tips to help you host the best one in your area. 

people hanging out at a swinger meet & greet

Everything to Know about Hosting a Swinger Meet & Greet

While the swinging lifestyle continues to grow in popularity, it can be difficult to find others who are into the same things as you. Instead of sitting online all day, browsing the profiles of swingers who seem interesting, why not meet them in person? A swinger meet & greet is the best way to connect with swingers, get to know them, and potentially set up dates for another time. 

Here are some simple tips for hosting a gathering that leaves a smile on everyone’s face.

  • Decide on the Right Venue

Start by deciding where you want to host your party. Many people choose to host something as relaxed as a meet & greet in their houses, but this is completely up to you. You could also set things up in a hotel, bar, or even a swinger club. Some important things to consider before settling on a venue are: 

  • Parking
  • Layout
  • Venue capacity
  • Clean-up
  • Start Advertising Early

If you want the turnout of your party to be impressive, you have to start sharing it early. Get the word out there at least a month in advance to start building excitement and give everyone a chance to rearrange their schedules. And, tell everyone

Talk about your party with swinger friends, and ask them to tell their friends, too. Share your party on social media, and create an event page where people can RSVP. Perhaps one of the best places to get the word out there is on a lifestyle forum, like SwingTowns, or in an online group. News can spread like wildfire in these spaces. 

  • Attend Your Own Party

Why would you ever shy away from attending your own party?!

Allow everyone to give credit where it’s due and thank you for hosting such an incredible get-together. And, start mingling in your hosted party to befriend new swingers that you may have never known lived near you. Attending your own party is one of the best ways to get your name into the swinger community, and increase the likelihood of a better turnout at the next event. 

people enjoying a swinger meet & greet

It’s Easier than Ever to Connect with Other Swingers

Thanks to the introduction of the Internet, connecting with swingers and other people in the lifestyle is easier than its ever been before. Now, you can browse swingers in any state right from the comfort of your own living room. So, don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and host the meet & greet of your dreams. You never know how many people are sitting around and waiting for it to happen.