Tag: fantasy

Swingers

5 Things To Discuss Before Your First Threesome

If you have the right partners, a threesome can be an exciting, mind blowing sexual experience.

Ready for your first threesome? Are you sure? Sometimes the best fantasies are better left to your imagination. However, if you have the right partners, a threesome can be an exciting, mind-blowing sexual experience. Before you start getting naked, there are some important things to go over with everyone that’s involved. Whether you’re the 3rd person, part of a couple,...

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Party Planning: Getting Ready for Your First Sexy Play Party Experience!

Equal Opportunity Lovers - Pleasure knows no Sex, Race, Ethnicity, Religion, Sexual Orientation or Body Shape.

So, it’s finally time – you’re at the point where you’re ready to check out that swingers party, or BDSM club, or sexy event that you’ve been dreaming about. Are you nervous? I hope you are, at least a little bit, because that means that you want it to go well - you want to make sure that you enjoy...

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How To Be A Good Girl

A Good Girl

If you are femme-identified, and you lean toward the submissive side, “good girl” has the potential to be a powerful aphrodisiac. Whether it’s offered up gaspingly in response to your oral sex skills, or whispered in your ear when you get back from a long day at work, “good girl” can be delightful to hear. (NOTE: if you are a...

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Secret Sexual Fetishes & Fantasies: What’s Your Name? What Do You Want It Be?

A friend of mine once told me she was jealous of what she termed my “adventurous sexual past.” I can’t get my husband to do more than just tie me up, she’d said. My answer was simple. Have you asked him to do other things? No, the bondage had been his idea, and he’d been happy to keep with that....

Swingers

How to Share Your Fantasies with Your Partner (Without Pissing Them Off!)

Sharing Your Fantasies

Many of us have been there. The pounding heart, the twisting stomach, the need to share our true sexual longings versus the overwhelming anxiety keeping us silent because our significant other might get upset— Do we take the risk? Do we share our deepest, darkest bedroom fantasies? You are thinking, “I want to share my fantasies, but…ugh. What if my...