Tag: fetish

Kink

5 Things You Must Do at a Weekend Kink Event

EvaG at the Geeky Kink Event

The best thing about being in a sexually open relationship is finding fun ways to explore our kinks and fetishes together. In the very beginning of our relationship, our exploration was limited to watching porn together. After awhile, we started sharing our kinky fantasies and finding ways to make a lot of them come true. Two years ago, we started...

Kink

BDSM Basics: Try Before You Buy

So how can you add this erotic flavor into your sexual repertoire without spending a dime?

BDSM has never been hotter! Although kink has always been around in the dark corners of humanity, it has recently taken the center stage of pop culture. It used to be you could only get your filthy, leather-clad thrills through Rock & Roll, the fashion industry or maybe horror movies. Meeting actual people in the wild who were kinky was...

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A Munch: It’s More Than You Think

Meet and Munch

So you have decided to explore your kinky side. Maybe you have been doing so for a while with a partner(s) or maybe you have always known you were kinky but never found anyone to share it with. Whether you are single or in a relationship finding a community of people where you can build friendships, learn and maybe even...

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Public D/s That Won’t Get You Arrested

Arrested!

Society doesn’t look kindly on blatant displays of kink; leashes in the shopping mall and kneeling for your dinner just Aren’t Done. But when you’re diving into the D/s part of BDSM—dominance and submission—sometimes you just don’t want to stop! It’s heady stuff, and if it turns out to be a super core part of your relationship dynamic, setting it...

Sex

Coming Out To Your Partner

Coming Out Kinky to Your Partner

“Ah, um, our sex is great…but could you maybe spank me or pull my hair next time?” I bashfully asked my lover of 3 months. The pause that followed left me wondering if disapproval (at the minimum), or a trail of dust leading out the door (at the worst) would follow! Luckily, his next words were thoughtful, and carefully chosen....

Sex

It’s Never Too Late For Now: When Should I Seek Sex Therapy?

Let's Talk About Sex Therapy

“This is my last resort.” It’s not just a Papa Roach song. It’s most people’s approach to therapy. I often hear clients come in with an all too familiar request: “We have tried everything, and nothing has changed. This is our last attempt before we break up. Please help us.” They have argued and built up years of resentment; they...

Kink

How to Get Your Partner to be More Kinky

Enjoy the Kinky Side of Life

So you’re a kinkster, and you’ve found a wonderful person that you want to date. There’s just one small problem: they’re not exactly kinky. Don’t abandon ship just yet! Here are some strategies for helping to introduce your partner to your kinkier side, and helping them find theirs. Be specific. Look, “kinky” is a broad category. It covers everything from...

Poly

3 Ways Science Suggests Polyamory is Good for You

Before we get started, I’m going to make one major disclaimer: Polyamory is not for everyone. Instead of thinking of polyamory as a choice, consider regarding it more as an orientation. Take it one step further and understand that orientations are more like a spectrum than a definition. This will make thinking about “polyamory” a little easier on the mind...

Kink

Public Fetish or Private Kink – Who Cares What People Think

Kinky Fetish Us

A friend of mine explored the public fetish club scene in quite some detail some years ago. He was one of the players who would occasionally direct a “performance” in the play area. He became part of a group of who would dress outrageously to gain entry and be around other like minded people. Fetish clubs are known to be...

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How To Be A Good Girl

A Good Girl

If you are femme-identified, and you lean toward the submissive side, “good girl” has the potential to be a powerful aphrodisiac. Whether it’s offered up gaspingly in response to your oral sex skills, or whispered in your ear when you get back from a long day at work, “good girl” can be delightful to hear. (NOTE: if you are a...