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BDSM Basics: Try Before You Buy

So how can you add this erotic flavor into your sexual repertoire without spending a dime?

BDSM has never been hotter! Although kink has always been around in the dark corners of humanity, it has recently taken the center stage of pop culture. It used to be you could only get your filthy, leather-clad thrills through Rock & Roll, the fashion industry or maybe horror movies. Meeting actual people in the wild who were kinky was...

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Public D/s That Won’t Get You Arrested

Arrested!

Society doesn’t look kindly on blatant displays of kink; leashes in the shopping mall and kneeling for your dinner just Aren’t Done. But when you’re diving into the D/s part of BDSM—dominance and submission—sometimes you just don’t want to stop! It’s heady stuff, and if it turns out to be a super core part of your relationship dynamic, setting it...

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What Every Sub Needs to Know Before Play

You Deserve to Be Heard and Cared For...

You know where you're meeting your play partner; you know what you're supposed to wear or bring. When you're prepping for a scene, make these mental notes, too! You are not greedy. Or maybe you are. Maybe that’s one of the things you like to hear, that you’re a greedy little slut. But you are not any more greedy than the...

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Public Fetish or Private Kink – Who Cares What People Think

Kinky Fetish Us

A friend of mine explored the public fetish club scene in quite some detail some years ago. He was one of the players who would occasionally direct a “performance” in the play area. He became part of a group of who would dress outrageously to gain entry and be around other like minded people. Fetish clubs are known to be...

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12 Tasks for Your Sub To Do

Submissive Reading

Whether you’re in a 24/7 dynamic with your submissive, or you just want to keep your sexy dynamic on their mind until your date next week, it’s not uncommon for a dominant to give a submissive a task to complete. You can’t be around your submissive all the time, and frankly, it would probably be pretty unhealthy if you were, but...