Tag: SwingTowns

Swingers

What Unicorns Want Couples To Know

Unicorn

“Unicorn” is slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female who participates in swinger lifestyle. Women like this are referred to as unicorns because they are very rare and hard to find. Being a coveted unicorn is a blessing and a curse. I love having the freedom and confidence to enjoy sex with whomever I choose. I love that I have...

Poly

What To Do When You Feel Like A Third Wheel

The stirring of the old green eyed monster...

The truth is, monogamy doesn't come naturally to most humans. Oh, of course we try; we try hard. But all of human history is littered with the failures of enforced monogamy. We cheat, sneak behind our partner’s back, have one night stands, go on business trips, and operate under a “don't ask don't tell” policy, all the while struggling with...

Kink

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Parties

Don't Be Creepy

I recently took a date to their first sex club, and that experience helped me see the place through a beginner’s eyes all over again. I remember how scared I was before my first time; I asked a series of questions in an online forum, everything from what to wear to what to bring with me. From talking to my...

Sex

Confessions of an Erotic Romance Writer

Author Confessions

During my last semester in a dorm, my roommate and I had an interesting...well, we called it a conversation starter. His name was Duke, a 10-inch dildo, held fully erect by a steel rod inside it. We sat it between our beds and always waited to see how someone would react to it on their first visit to our room....

Sex

What To Look For in a Casual Sex Partner

Wanna Hookup?

Finding a compatible sex partner isn’t the easiest task, even with hookup culture being predominantly popular at this moment in history. Casual sex nowadays can take many forms and is variable in every relationship, meaning there’s no cookie cutter way to having a successful casual partner. However, there are some qualities to look for in potential suitors that will help...

Swingers

7 Ways to Spot A Swinger

Are They Swingers?

If you’re into swinging, chances are you’ve had more than one encounter of trying to ‘spot the swinger’ with your partner. Asking potentially leading questions to a colleague, trying to suss out a new friend’s sexual predilections because they’ve just got that vibe, or looking for some sign or clue that your new neighbors are swingers because they keep regaling...

Poly

One Love… Two love… Three love… Poly Love!

Dr. Yvonka De Ridder, Ph.D.

Let’s be honest, is one of anything really ever enough? For us humans, the depth of complexity is seemingly never ending. Thus, resulting in acquired tastes for…well, everything. Somehow we have an immense capacity to deny ourselves the very thing that makes us human – open, fluid, and explorative sexuality. It’s quite a consistent finding in my line of work...

Poly

8 Ways to Decide if an Open Relationship is Right for You

Deciding if an open relationship is the right thing for you...

Let’s be economical with the truth here, traditional dating has pretty much disappeared. It’s 2017 and it’s almost a rarity to meet someone in a social setting and date from therein. No, it’s 2017 and it’s the age of swiping right and dating multiple people, as the vast majority of the population can’t seem to contend with the notion of...