Tag: talk

Sex

How to Get the Sex You Crave: Communication Style and Relationships

Take a leap. Nothing will change unless your communication does.

So you’re having trouble getting what you want sexually from your partner(s), huh? Or maybe the honeymoon phase has ended and you’re realizing that in order to rekindle the sex flame, you need to start talking more openly about trying something new? I can’t tell you how many people, couples and individuals, have come into my psychotherapy office with this...

Dating

How to Discuss Sex on a Date Without Being Creepy

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby...

Let’s be honest, for most people on a date, sex is going to cross their minds. For allosexual folks (people who experience sexual attraction), a date often works as an audition of sorts, is this the kind of person I can see myself getting naked with? That decision might be about more than just that special spark of chemistry, the...