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How to Choose Lube (Video)

Lube matters.

There are four main categories of lubricant: water-based, silicone, silicone and water-based hybrids, and oil-based lubricants (those are usually creamy). So, how do you choose which lube to use? Water-Based Lube If you're having sex with someone who has a vagina, or if you have a vagina, start with a water-based. Even if you lubricate just fine, a water-based lubricant...

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Beginner’s Guide to Sex Parties

Don't Be Creepy

I recently took a date to their first sex club, and that experience helped me see the place through a beginner’s eyes all over again. I remember how scared I was before my first time; I asked a series of questions in an online forum, everything from what to wear to what to bring with me. From talking to my...

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Homework for Your Sub

Submissive Self-Care

For those among us with negative associations with schoolwork, the idea of bringing homework into a BDSM relationship might be cringe-worthy. I’m asking you to set aside that reflexive instinct and open your eyes to a world of possibilities. Homework isn’t just for the overbearing teacher and delinquent student, it’s popular with dominants of all stripes who want to exercise...