Getting Laid on the Best Hookup Sites with The Porn Dude
The Internet is truly a modern-day miracle. It’s never been easier for consenting adults to find exactly the type of relationships and casual encounters they want. Whether you’re a swinger, poly, a BDSM kinkster, or even somebody just looking for an old-fashioned one-night stand, you’ve got a wealth of options to help guide you there. The only question is, which dating or hookup site is right for you? Considering the blog you’re reading this on, the answer might seem obvious, but is it really?
“A lot of these sites really do aim to please everyone, from swingers who’ve been swinging for decades to college kids just looking for an easy lay,” says The Porn Dude, founder of ThePornDude.com, where he’s been testing out and reviewing dating sites for the better part of a decade. “The thing is, there are a number of factors you need to consider when you’re trying to find the best hookup site for your own needs. One-size-fits-all doesn’t necessarily work. As a really obvious example, SwingTowns works great for if you’re trying to swap wives for the night. If you’re looking for some stranger you’d rather the wife not know about, though, you might be better off with Ashley Madison.”
Porn, Swinger Sites and More Since 2013
The Porn Dude got his start by posting reviews of the best porn sites on the web, both free and paid. As the site grew, he found his readers asking him about other online adult activities. Soon, he had entire sections devoted to erotic games, sex forums, and sex dating and hookup sites. As of this writing, that dating list had full reviews of about 20 different places on the Internet where people could find the casual encounter or serious relationship of their dreams.
“There are a lot more out there,” he says, “but I keep the list trimmed down to the best, most worthwhile ones. There’s no sense trying to get laid in a ghost town without any users, or on some ancient site with a broken interface. I’m not going to waste anyone’s time.”
Many of the dating sites he’s reviewed are aimed at very specific demographics. The aforementioned Ashley Madison caters to cheaters, while Seeking Arrangement is for aspiring sugar daddies and their sugar babies. MILFaholic and BlackCrush are exactly the kind of sex dating sites you think they are, and TSDates can probably help you find a transsexual hookup a little easier than the other guys.
“In some ways, it’s easier if you’re looking for something in a deep niche,” The Porn Dude says. “You probably ain’t going to find a European bride on SexDating or BeNaughty, but Find-Bride was designed specifically for you. It gets more difficult if you’re looking for a general swinger or BDSM/fetish site. Then you’ve got a lot of different choices. It’s almost as if you’d need some Dude to go check ‘em all out for you and report his findings, maybe on some kind of website. Oh, you know what? I’ve got just the place.”
What to Look for In a Hookup Site
The Porn Dude’s list of hookup sites is ranked in the order he thinks they’ll be most useful to his readers, at least in a general sense. “People who don’t like reading can just start at the top of the list,” he says, “but you’ll have much better luck if you dig in and find out what each site has to offer, and what the downsides are. I’ve done most of the heavy lifting on my website.”
While every dating site user is unique, there are a few key features The Porn Dude looks for when giving his assessment. If you want to interact with real, live adults, he says, you should look for four things: a big userbase, members in your area, a good interface, and a decent price.
“The very most important thing, whether it’s a swinger site or something designed to get you into a BDSM dungeon with your neighbor, is a big userbase. Like I said, nobody gets laid in a ghost town. The sites toward the top of my list have the most users, giving you the highest chance of meeting one.”
Location matters, too, even on the big sites. “A lot of these sites are technically worldwide, but then you get connected and realize most of the listings are clustered in one particular region a thousand miles from you. Even if they have a ton of registered users, you should check out how many of them are local before you sign up for any paid memberships.”
A good interface is practically a given. “Look, we’re well into the 21st century. Nobody should have to struggle with a website anymore. If you build a sex dating site with Flash or some other outdated, difficult nonsense, nobody should waste their time on your site. I sure as hell won’t list it on ThePornDude.”
Finally, The Porn Dude strongly advises against throwing your money at the most expensive hookup sites out there just because you can. “It sounds like I’m just being a cheapskate, but you really should look for a good price when you’re choosing a swinger site. For one thing, you can get laid completely for free on a lot of them. The bigger issue relates back to those big userbases. You’ve got to figure, if they’re charging out the wazoo, they’re cutting off a lot of your potential partners who’d rather not break the bank just to meet you. No offense, you big stud.”
In the end, it’s not a complicated choice, but can be time-consuming. Swingers, daters, kinksters and anyone else in a hurry can get a head start by checking out the sex dating area at ThePornDude.com.
“Oh, by the way,” he adds, “there’s nothing wrong with playing the field. Hell, you’ll definitely have the best luck if you sign up for more than one site. You should be active on SwingTowns and a couple more. Maybe four or five. I guess it depends on what you’re looking for and how much effort it’s worth to you. If you’re anything like me, it’s always worth it.”
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