Tag: fetish lifestyles

Kink

5 Things You Must Do at a Weekend Kink Event

EvaG at the Geeky Kink Event

The best thing about being in a sexually open relationship is finding fun ways to explore our kinks and fetishes together. In the very beginning of our relationship, our exploration was limited to watching porn together. After awhile, we started sharing our kinky fantasies and finding ways to make a lot of them come true. Two years ago, we started...

Kink

BDSM Basics: Try Before You Buy

So how can you add this erotic flavor into your sexual repertoire without spending a dime?

BDSM has never been hotter! Although kink has always been around in the dark corners of humanity, it has recently taken the center stage of pop culture. It used to be you could only get your filthy, leather-clad thrills through Rock & Roll, the fashion industry or maybe horror movies. Meeting actual people in the wild who were kinky was...

Poly

3 Ways Science Suggests Polyamory is Good for You

Before we get started, I’m going to make one major disclaimer: Polyamory is not for everyone. Instead of thinking of polyamory as a choice, consider regarding it more as an orientation. Take it one step further and understand that orientations are more like a spectrum than a definition. This will make thinking about “polyamory” a little easier on the mind...

Kink

Public Fetish or Private Kink – Who Cares What People Think

Kinky Fetish Us

A friend of mine explored the public fetish club scene in quite some detail some years ago. He was one of the players who would occasionally direct a “performance” in the play area. He became part of a group of who would dress outrageously to gain entry and be around other like minded people. Fetish clubs are known to be...

Kink

12 Tasks for Your Sub To Do

Submissive Reading

Whether you’re in a 24/7 dynamic with your submissive, or you just want to keep your sexy dynamic on their mind until your date next week, it’s not uncommon for a dominant to give a submissive a task to complete. You can’t be around your submissive all the time, and frankly, it would probably be pretty unhealthy if you were, but...

Kink

Homework for Your Sub

Submissive Self-Care

For those among us with negative associations with schoolwork, the idea of bringing homework into a BDSM relationship might be cringe-worthy. I’m asking you to set aside that reflexive instinct and open your eyes to a world of possibilities. Homework isn’t just for the overbearing teacher and delinquent student, it’s popular with dominants of all stripes who want to exercise...

Swingers

The Cuckold Cover-Up: Dismantling the 4 Big Whoppers

Cuckholding

Let’s be honest. When you’re surfing the web for information on cuckolding, you have to wade through a lot of bull^#*@ to find accurate and reliable information. We’re going to bust through four of the biggest myths about cuckolding and set the record straight about this popular fetish. Myth #1: Cuckolds are All Men According to Dr. David Ley, Ph.D,...

Kink

Domestic Discipline: He Wants to Spank Me. Should I Let Him?

Spanking in Domestic Discipline

  “I don’t know how I feel about him disciplining me. What do you think?” It's interesting how I get this question in one form or another, often asked very quietly, especially from blushing ladies. It’s as if the women inquiring about Domestic Discipline are afraid that the feminists of yesteryear might hear, rise up from their graves, and haunt...