Tag: swingers

Swingers

First Time At A Swinger Club: Your Frequently Asked Questions Answered

First Time At A Swinger Club

New swingers email me often with their questions about swinger clubs and parties. Going to a club or party for the first time can be nerve-wracking. If you have questions about going to a swinger club for the first time, you might find your answers here. These are the most common questions I get about swinger clubs from people who...

Swingers

What Unicorns Want Couples To Know

Unicorn

“Unicorn” is slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female who participates in swinger lifestyle. Women like this are referred to as unicorns because they are very rare and hard to find. Being a coveted unicorn is a blessing and a curse. I love having the freedom and confidence to enjoy sex with whomever I choose. I love that I have...

Poly

What To Do When You Feel Like A Third Wheel

The stirring of the old green eyed monster...

The truth is, monogamy doesn't come naturally to most humans. Oh, of course we try; we try hard. But all of human history is littered with the failures of enforced monogamy. We cheat, sneak behind our partner’s back, have one night stands, go on business trips, and operate under a “don't ask don't tell” policy, all the while struggling with...

Kink

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Parties

Don't Be Creepy

I recently took a date to their first sex club, and that experience helped me see the place through a beginner’s eyes all over again. I remember how scared I was before my first time; I asked a series of questions in an online forum, everything from what to wear to what to bring with me. From talking to my...

Swingers

5 Things To Discuss Before Your First Threesome

If you have the right partners, a threesome can be an exciting, mind blowing sexual experience.

Ready for your first threesome? Are you sure? Sometimes the best fantasies are better left to your imagination. However, if you have the right partners, a threesome can be an exciting, mind-blowing sexual experience. Before you start getting naked, there are some important things to go over with everyone that’s involved. Whether you’re the 3rd person, part of a couple,...

Poly

5 Signs You Might Be Happier in an Open Relationship

How do you know when you’re truly ready for an Open Relationship? Only you can know for sure...

If you’re reading this, I think it’s safe to say that you’re at least considering opening up your relationship. While polyamory, swinging, and open relationships are still a bit taboo, they’re becoming more and more mainstream, which means more people are looking to take a leap into the lifestyle than ever before. How do you know when you’re truly ready?...

Kink

A Munch: It’s More Than You Think

Meet and Munch

So you have decided to explore your kinky side. Maybe you have been doing so for a while with a partner(s) or maybe you have always known you were kinky but never found anyone to share it with. Whether you are single or in a relationship finding a community of people where you can build friendships, learn and maybe even...

Kink

Party Planning: Getting Ready for Your First Sexy Play Party Experience!

Equal Opportunity Lovers - Pleasure knows no Sex, Race, Ethnicity, Religion, Sexual Orientation or Body Shape.

So, it’s finally time – you’re at the point where you’re ready to check out that swingers party, or BDSM club, or sexy event that you’ve been dreaming about. Are you nervous? I hope you are, at least a little bit, because that means that you want it to go well - you want to make sure that you enjoy...

Swingers

We Decided To Swing. Now What?

Meeting New Swingers

Welcome to the wonderful world of swinging! Now that you’ve surmised that your commitment, love, and devotion to one another will not be threatened by casual sex with other people, you can call yourselves swingers. Maybe you’re ready to take the first tiny steps into this lifestyle. Maybe you’re ready to dive right in. Regardless of how quickly or slowly...