Minutes off I-70 in Hagerstown, Tri-State Adventures teams up with Secret Sinsations for a private, wristband-only hotel takeover designed for couples and open-minded adults who want a full weekend to mingle, dance, and play at their own pace. Unlike pop-in club nights, these events run across the entire property with daytime pool games and giveaways, then flip after dark into a nightclub vibe—so you can meet people in the sunshine and reconnect on the dance floor later. Expect a classic two-night arc: an ice-breaking ABC (Anything-But-Clothes) Friday, a Saturday pool-party day, and a glam Oz/TV-movie–themed Saturday night.
Operationally it’s straightforward but specific: the weekend is adult-only and private, wristbands are required to be anywhere on hotel grounds, and BYO is the norm (policies on mixers/ice vary by venue). Rooms are booked by phone with the hotel—no online reservations—and many takeovers ask you to reserve both nights; you can still attend the parties without a room if you prefer. Singles are limited and must be pre-approved via the organizer. For navigation, the Hagerstown host hotel is at 931 Dual Highway, Building A (branding has alternated between Clarion and Plaza Inn & Suites, so confirm the current name when you publish).
Why This Weekend Appeals to Couples
- Full-property takeover = built-in comfort. Wristband-only access across the entire hotel keeps the crowd curated and adult-only, so couples can relax without random walk-ins.
- Structured icebreakers for easy mingling. Friday opens with a Speed Swing social and an ABC (Anything But Clothes) contest—light, playful prompts that make starting conversations effortless for newcomers.
- Daytime-to-night flow that fits different comfort levels. Saturday brings poolside games, prizes, and giveaways for low-pressure social time in daylight, then transitions to a glam Oz/TV–movie-themed nightclub vibe at night.
- On-premise-friendly zones (clearly labeled). Night programming includes presenter-led education and designated play areas (e.g., group space, private areas for one-night guests), so couples can choose their pace with clear boundaries.
- BYO keeps costs predictable. There’s no hosted bar; you bring your own beverages. Pack mixers as needed based on the hotel’s setup and enjoy the flexibility of pouring what you like.
- Hotel convenience without the obligation. You’re encouraged to book a room for the full experience, but it isn’t required to attend. If you do book, expect a two-night minimum for the event block and phone-only reservations with the group name.
- Balanced crowd by design. Couples and single ladies are welcomed; single men are limited and require pre-approval with the organizer—an approach that helps maintain a couple-centric atmosphere.
- Clear, posted etiquette. Expect consent-first norms (“ask before touching”), privacy awareness around phone/camera use, and straightforward check-in procedures (wristband registration in the lobby or poolside).
- Meet & Greet hosted by the organizer. A Friday early-evening Meet & Greet around the host room offers a friendly, small-scale way to meet people before the main party energy ramps up.
- Travel-friendly location. The host hotel sits right off the main Hagerstown corridor, making it easy for weekenders driving in from across Maryland, Pennsylvania, and West Virginia.
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About the Organizer & Weekend Setup
Who’s behind it.
Tri-State Adventures is a regional lifestyle group serving Maryland, Pennsylvania, and West Virginia. They host parties in hotels, private houses, and partner clubs—often with on-premise-friendly options—and are known for a welcoming, no-pressure, couple-centric vibe. For this takeover they partner with Secret Sinsations, a hotel-wide weekend series.
Private, adult-only hotel takeover.
This is not a public hotel event. Wristbands are required to be anywhere on the property during the weekend, and staff/hosts control access points. The event runs across multiple spaces (lobby check-in, pool area daytime, ballroom/nightclub area at night), with security and volunteers helping guests find the right areas.
Where it happens.
Host hotel: 931 Dual Highway, Building A, Hagerstown, MD 21740. The property at that address has operated under different brand names over time; confirm the current brand name when publishing and when calling to book.
How room booking works.
Rooms are booked by phone directly with the hotel using the event’s group name; online booking is typically disabled for the block. Expect a two-night minimum for the event rate. A room is recommended but not required to attend; you can purchase weekend or single-night access without reserving a room. If sold out, ask to be added to the waiting list and check nearby overflow options within a mile.
Registration & check-in.
Party registration (to receive wristbands) is handled on site—usually in the hotel lobby or poolside. Plan to register as soon as you arrive. Keep your wristband visible whenever you’re in event spaces.
Who can attend.
Couples and single ladies are welcome. Single men are limited and require pre-approval directly with the organizer prior to the weekend; walk-up approval is not guaranteed. All guests must be 21+ with government-issued ID at check-in.
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BYO policy.
There is no hosted bar; this is BYO. Bring your own beverages and any preferred mixers. Some hotels provide ice or limited setups, but don’t assume—pack what you need for the room and party spaces, and plan to transport and store your beverages discreetly per hotel guidance.
Dress & presentation.
Evening parties are nightclub-upscale; theme attire is encouraged on the posted nights (ABC Friday, Oz/TV-movie Saturday). If not in theme, dress to impress. Daytime pool festivities call for swimwear/cover-ups appropriate for a private, lifestyle-friendly environment.
Consent, privacy, and safety.
House norms are consent-first: ask before touching, include both partners in conversations, and accept “no” immediately. Expect strict privacy etiquette around phone/camera use in party zones. Zero-tolerance rules generally apply to illegal drugs, weapons, and solicitation; violations can lead to removal and a permanent ban.
Contact points.
Organizer lines commonly used for this weekend: Secret Sinsations host line (for single-male pre-approval and hotel questions) and Tri-State Adventures host number (for meet-and-greet and general weekend info). Keep both numbers handy for last-minute updates.
Editor’s week-of accuracy checks.
Before you publish, reconfirm: the current hotel brand name at 931 Dual Highway, the booking instructions (phone-only and two-night minimum), the registration location (lobby vs. poolside), the singles policy status and any caps, and whether the hotel is providing ice/mixers or if attendees must bring their own.
The Event (what to expect across the weekend)
Event snapshot
- Private, adult-only, wristband-required hotel takeover in Hagerstown
- BYO weekend with ABC (Anything-But-Clothes) Friday, pool-party Saturday day, and Oz/TV–movie–themed Saturday night
- Rooms booked by phone with the event group; a room is recommended but not required
- Couples and single ladies welcome; single men limited and must be pre-approved
Friday — ABC Night (icebreakers + nightclub energy)
- Early-evening Meet & Greet hosted by Tri-State Adventures near the host room to help new couples connect before the rush
- Speed social to meet lots of people quickly, then an ABC costume contest for a playful, low-pressure way to break the ice
- DJ-driven party into late evening; dress to impress even if your outfit is minimalist or themed
Saturday Day — Pool games, prizes, and casual social time
- Private pool-deck festivities with games, giveaways, and relaxed mingling in daylight
- Expect a “wander and chat” vibe around the deck; bring swimwear/cover-up and hydrate
- Wristband must remain visible; follow staff direction for pool-area access and glass policies
Saturday Night — Oz Theme (glam + character looks)
- Suggested attire is glamorous and hot; TV or movie character spins welcome
- DJ nightclub vibe with the option to shift from dancing to educational demos or quieter spaces as comfort allows
- On-premise-friendly zones are designated: expect presenter-led BDSM demos and a playroom footprint that may include swings, a St. Andrew’s cross, restraints on beds, an open group area, and a smaller private area reserved for one-night guests
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Access, registration, and movement
- Registration for wristbands occurs on site, typically in the lobby or poolside; plan to check in as soon as you arrive
- Wristbands are required to be anywhere on hotel property during the event; security and volunteers monitor access points
- There is no hosted bar; it is bring-your-own throughout the weekend. Pack mixers/ice or confirm what the hotel provides for the block
Etiquette & crowd balance
- Consent-first culture: ask before touching, include both partners in conversation, accept “no” immediately
- Privacy awareness around phones and cameras in party zones; follow posted rules and staff directions
- Singles policy is intentionally selective to maintain a couple-centric balance; single men must secure approval with the organizer in advance
Suggested flow (use to brief readers)
- Friday late afternoon: check in, pick up wristbands, drop bags, quick lap of public spaces
- Early evening: Meet & Greet near the host room
- Night: ABC contest and DJ party; plan hydration breaks and BYO logistics
- Saturday late morning to afternoon: pool party, games, and downtime
- Saturday night: Oz theme party, optional demos, and designated play areas; wind down safely and respect quiet hours outside party zones
Editor’s week-of checks
- Pull the exact meet-and-greet time and location, the final pool schedule, and any last-entry or quiet-hour notes from the current event message
- Confirm any glass restrictions on the pool deck, the registration location (lobby vs poolside), and whether mixers/ice are available to attendees
- Re-state the singles policy and any capacity caps exactly as posted for the current weekend
Entry, Registration & Pricing
Who can attend & age rules
Private, adult-only hotel takeover. All guests must be 21+ with government-issued ID. Wristbands are required to be anywhere on the hotel property during the event.
How to get in (registration flow)
- Arrive at the host hotel and go straight to event registration (lobby or poolside, as posted).
- Present ID, complete the quick registration, and receive wristbands.
- Keep your wristband visible whenever you are in event areas; security and volunteers monitor access points.
Room reservations (optional but recommended)
- Booking is by phone directly with the hotel’s front desk; online booking is not used for the event block.
- Most takeovers require booking both Friday and Saturday nights for rooms on the block.
- You may attend the parties without reserving a room.
- If rooms are sold out, request the waiting list and consider nearby overflow options within about a mile.
Singles policy
Couples and single ladies are welcome. Single men are limited and require pre-approval from the organizer before the weekend; walk-up approval is not guaranteed.
BYO policy that affects entry
There is no hosted bar; this is a bring-your-own weekend. Bring your own beverages and any preferred mixers/ice (hotel provisions can vary). Carry and store alcohol discreetly per hotel guidance.
Dress expectations at the door
Nighttime parties are nightclub-upscale with theme attire encouraged: ABC (Anything-But-Clothes) on Friday and Oz/TV-movie glam on Saturday. If not in theme, dress to impress. Daytime pool events call for appropriate swimwear/cover-ups.
Pricing (as posted by the organizer for this ABC/Oz weekend)
- Couples: Friday $50 • Saturday $80 • Both nights $100
- Single Men (limited; pre-approval required): Friday $75 • Saturday $100 • Both nights $150
- Single Ladies: Friday $10 • Saturday $10 • Both nights $20
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What to bring to the door
- Government ID (21+) and your registration/RSVP details
- Payment for your selected night(s) or weekend
- BYO beverages and mixers as needed
- A small tote for moving drinks discreetly between spaces
Editor’s week-of accuracy checks
- Reconfirm the current hotel brand name at 931 Dual Highway, the phone-only booking process, and whether a two-night minimum still applies.
- Verify registration location (lobby vs. poolside) and any posted quiet hours/last-entry notes.
- Re-check the singles policy/caps and the wristband requirement language.
- Re-pull the current per-night and weekend prices in case the event updated since capture.
Dress Code & Etiquette
Theme nights (evening parties).
- Friday — ABC (Anything-But-Clothes): Creative outfits are encouraged, but keep them secure, comfortable, and compliant with hotel/legal coverage. Use tape, fabric, or accessories that won’t fail on the dance floor. Bring a simple backup (clubwear) in case you want to change later.
- Saturday — Oz / TV–Movie Glam: Think upscale nightclub with character flair. If you’re not in theme, dress to impress (polished clubwear). Heels or stylish sneakers that match the look; avoid overly casual daywear at night events.
Daytime pool vibe (Saturday).
- Swimwear and cover-ups appropriate for a private, lifestyle-friendly pool setting. Bring sandals/flip-flops and a towel. Follow staff guidance on no-glass near the pool; pour into cups before heading outside.
General presentation tips.
- Choose breathable, confident fits; bring deodorant, mints, and a small touch-up kit.
- Costumes are conversation starters—add one or two themed accessories if you’re shy about full outfits.
Consent-first culture (non-negotiable).
- Ask before touching; include both partners in conversation.
- No means no—accept declines immediately and move on.
- If anything feels off, discreetly flag staff/hosts; they’re there to help.
Privacy & phones.
- Expect restricted phone/camera use in party zones. Keep devices put away unless you’re in a clearly designated area and have consent from everyone in frame. When in doubt, don’t shoot.
BYO etiquette.
- It’s bring-your-own all weekend. Label your bottle; don’t pour from someone else’s without a clear invite. Pack mixers/ice as needed for your room and party spaces, and carry beverages discreetly between areas. Clean up empties and cups as you go.
Singles policy reminders.
- Couples and single ladies are welcome. Single men are limited and must be pre-approved by the organizer in advance; approval at the door isn’t guaranteed. In all cases, be courteous, read the room, and mind non-verbal cues.
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Play-space etiquette (when open).
- Follow posted rules and host instructions. Many weekends feature presenters and designated play areas that may include group space and equipment (e.g., swing, St. Andrew’s cross, restraint points).
- Get explicit verbal consent before any touch or toy use; negotiate boundaries first.
- Use protection and the wipes/trash provided; leave spaces tidy for the next guests.
Hotel & hallway etiquette.
- Wear cover-ups outside party zones and be discreet in common corridors. Keep voices down when moving between rooms, especially late at night. No open containers in non-event areas unless staff instruct otherwise.
Quick checklist before you head down.
- Theme outfit or polished clubwear, plus a comfortable backup
- Government ID and wristband on
- BYO labeled and cups ready; no glass at the pool
- Touch-up kit (mints, wipes, deodorant), protection, and a small tote
- Phone silenced and put away unless you’re in a designated spot with consent
Editor’s week-of double-check.
Confirm any theme-specific attire notes on the current event post, pool glass policy, photo/phone restrictions for party zones, and whether specific play areas or presenter sessions are listed for this weekend.
BYO & What to Bring
How BYO works this weekend
- No hosted bar: This is a bring-your-own weekend across the hotel takeover.
- What to bring: Sealed beer, wine, or spirits plus whatever you like to mix with (sodas, juices, garnish). Don’t assume mixers or ice—pack your own or plan to grab them locally.
- Where to carry: Move beverages discreetly between your room and party areas in a small tote or soft cooler; follow staff guidance on where open containers are allowed.
Pool-day specifics (Saturday)
- No glass near the pool: Pour into plastic cups before heading outside.
- Pack for sun + water: Swimwear, cover-up, sandals/flip-flops, towel, sunscreen, sunglasses, a waterproof pouch for your phone/ID, and water or electrolyte packs to stay hydrated.
Evening theme prep
- Friday — ABC (Anything-But-Clothes): Bring safe, secure materials (fabric, tape designed for skin, accessories) and a simple backup outfit in case you want to change.
- Saturday — Oz / TV-movie glam: Upscale nightclub look with optional character flair; comfortable but stylish footwear recommended.
- Dress to impress if not in theme.
Must-bring IDs and essentials
- Government-issued ID (21+ required).
- Payment for your chosen night(s) or weekend.
- Your registration/RSVP details and any single-male pre-approval confirmation (if applicable).
- Room key/wristband pouch or lanyard so your wristband stays visible and secure.
Smart BYO kit (packs small but covers everything)
- Reusable cups or plastic tumblers, straws, napkins.
- Ice (bag or reusable packs) and a small soft cooler.
- Bottle labels or a marker, opener/corkscrew.
- Water and light snacks.
- Trash bags or zipper bags for quick clean-up.
Hygiene & aftercare kit
- Mints, wipes, hand sanitizer, deodorant, tissues, lip balm.
- Protection (condoms/dental dams), personal lube, toy wipes/cleaner if you bring items.
- Small towel or compact shower kit; a change of shirt for after the dance floor.
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Discretion & comfort
- Opaque tote for bottles, garment bag for outfits, a few safety pins and double-sided tape.
- Phone charger/power bank, medications, basic first-aid (bandages, pain reliever).
- Earplugs if you’re sound-sensitive; light sweater or wrap for air-conditioned spaces.
BYO etiquette that keeps things smooth
- Label your bottle and don’t pour from others’ bottles unless invited.
- Keep cups and coolers tidy; use bins and leave spaces clean.
- Follow staff instructions on where drinks are permitted (ballroom, lounge, pool deck).
- When parties wind down, remove or secure your alcohol per host guidance and local rules.
Quick pre-arrival checklist
- ID, wristband/RSVP details, payment method.
- Sealed beverages, mixers, cups, small cooler, opener.
- Theme outfit + backup, swim kit, aftercare kit.
- Rideshare or designated-driver plan set before you head downstairs.
Getting There & Logistics
Exact address & area context
Host hotel: 931 Dual Highway, Building A, Hagerstown, MD 21740. It’s on US-40 (Dual Highway) a few minutes from I-70 and a short hop to I-81, making it easy for weekenders from Maryland, Pennsylvania, and West Virginia.
Driving approaches
- From I-70: Exit toward Hagerstown/US-40 (Dual Highway), then continue a few minutes to the hotel corridor.
- From I-81: Connect to I-70 East, then hop to US-40 (Dual Highway).
- Local note: Dual Highway is a busy commercial strip—budget a few extra minutes for lights and weekend traffic.
Parking & arrival tips
- On-site hotel parking; arrive earlier on Friday to breeze through check-in and again before Saturday pool hours.
- Go straight to event registration (lobby or poolside as posted) to get your wristbands before exploring.
- Be discreet outside party areas: no open containers or congregating in the lot.
Rideshare & phone planning
- Because phone/camera use is restricted in party zones, pre-schedule rides and agree on a pickup point (main entrance or a well-lit curb on Dual Highway).
- Keep your wristband visible when stepping out to meet a driver and re-entering event areas.
Air & regional rail
- Closest airport: Hagerstown Regional (HGR), roughly 15–20 minutes by car.
- Major hubs: BWI, IAD, and DCA are typically 1.25–2 hours depending on traffic; MDT (Harrisburg) is another viable option for guests coming from the north.
- Rail: Regional rail to Hagerstown is limited; most visitors drive or rideshare from the nearest MARC/Amtrak stops (e.g., Frederick or Martinsburg).
Local errands (mixers/ice/last-minute items)
- Dual Highway has multiple convenience and grocery options; pick up ice, cups, mixers, and snacks before you check in so you’re not leaving the property mid-party.
Accessibility & comfort
- The venue spans multiple spaces (lobby/pool/ballroom). If you need ground-floor or elevator access, call the hotel when you book.
- Noise is nightclub-level in party rooms; bring earplugs if you’re sound-sensitive. Hallways and common areas observe quiet-hour etiquette.
Wristbands, movement & re-entry
- This is a private, adult-only takeover; wristbands are required anywhere on hotel grounds during the event.
- Keep your wristband on and visible; security and volunteers monitor access points.
- Follow staff guidance when moving between pool deck, ballroom/nightclub, and guest rooms.
What to bring for smooth logistics
- Government ID (21+), registration/RSVP details, and payment.
- BYO kit: sealed beverages, cups, opener, soft cooler/ice, and a discreet tote.
- Pool kit: swimwear/cover-up, sandals, towel, sunscreen; no glass at the pool—use plastic cups.
- Theme outfits (and a simple backup), plus a small aftercare kit (mints, wipes, protection).
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Quick day-of checklist
- Confirm the current hotel brand name at the Dual Highway address and your room booking (if any).
- Note the registration location (lobby vs. poolside) and any quiet hours/last-entry notes sent by hosts.
- Finalize rideshare details before you head downstairs.
- Keep your wristband visible whenever you’re in event spaces.
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