Imagine how much your wife would enjoy herself. Picture her slowly getting lost in ecstasy as the sensations of pleasure overwhelm her. Imagine every part of her body and mind feeling so good and so aroused.
She loves when she feels sexy. She loves being the object of raw desire. She wants to be the center of attention and she loves when the person who is giving her their full attention wants nothing more than to make her feel good. It’s a beautiful, blissful, indulgent place for her.
Think of how good she feels when there’s nothing else on her mind because she’s submerged in sexual pleasure. When she can let herself go and forget about everything else just for a while and her daily stresses are gone. Isn’t it wonderful when she’s not worried about work or kids or chores or obligations because existence is centered on how her body feels?
Don’t you love it when she starts to climax – the slow build and the excitement that takes over? Isn’t it beautiful to watch her pleasure build and multiply whether her eyes are wide open and watching or shut tight with delight? Can’t you almost feel the soothing flood of orgasm taking her to a beautiful blissful place? It creates a sublime joy that fills the room.
This has nothing to do with love. This isn’t even adoration. This is pure carnal physical gratification.
If this is something she craves, will you stand in the way and tell her she can’t be your hotwife? Are you happy when she’s happy? Are you the only person in the world that can make her happy? When that happiness comes from a source outside of your relationship, is that okay with you?
Do you believe her when she says she loves you? Is it possible that she could love you with all of her heart and enjoy an evening of lustful fun with another person? Is the bond between the two of you one that could be shaken by a few hours spent in enmeshed in pleasure with someone else? Have you not imagined or occasionally desired sex with someone besides your spouse? Doesn’t everyone? Why would she be any different?
Do you gain pleasure from her pleasure? Does her smile make you smile? Does her joy make you joyful? Does seeing her turned on, eager to please, and dying for pleasure turn you on? Do you want her to have what she wants? Do you want her to feel good? Or do you believe she should get what she wants only if you are the one to give it to her?
If she wanted a little time to be sexually indulgent with someone else as a hotwife, would you welcome this? Or have you decided that her sexual satisfaction should have limits that start and end with you?
Do you want her to enjoy herself even when you aren’t with her? Doesn’t that happen all the time anyway? Does it change how much she loves you? Surely she enjoys great company, great conversation, great compatibility, great challenge, and great friendship with other people apart from you. Do you think she could enjoy sex with someone apart from you too?
Or are you someone who believes it’s inconceivable that a woman could enjoy sex with someone besides her husband? Does a marital vow mean her vagina can receive pleasure from you, and no one else? Does the thought of another cock feel like a threat? Do you believe that the love and devotion you have for each other can’t withstand a couple of hours of erotic physical pleasure with another man?
Do you need to oversee all of her sexual pleasure? Does the idea of someone else doing something different or better than you scare you enough to demand that she only enjoy what you do? Is the life you built together so fragile that an outsider’s cock can knock it down and destroy it for good? Is shielding yourself from feelings of jealousy more important than fulfilling her sexual desires?
If you love each other and trust each other, you can do this. If you’ve pleasured yourself to a woman being pleasured by other men (in other words, if you have ever watched porn) you can do this. If you understand that sexual pleasure can be completely separate from love and commitment, you can do this. You can agree to let your wife go out and play without you. She can be your hotwife.