Tucked into a secluded spot minutes off I-95 in northeast Maryland, The Private Affair (TPA) in Port Deposit has grown into a destination for swinger couples and open-minded adults who want a curated, on-premise club experience without the pressure. It’s a members-only, 21+ BYOB venue that opens most Saturdays, with select Friday specials, and it’s known for an easy check-in flow, host-led first-timer tours, and a clear consent culture—so you can relax, mingle, and let the night unfold.
Inside, you’ll find roughly 10,000 sq ft of nightclub energy—DJ booth, dance floor, lounge space—and dedicated playrooms that keep the more risqué fun contained to private areas. The BYOB setup is straightforward: bring sealed bottles, check them with the bar, and help yourself to complimentary soft drinks and mixers (bartenders work for tips). The result is a full-evening vibe without bar markups, plus all the privacy perks of a private club.
TPA’s house rules are built for comfort and safety: “No Means No,” no drugs, no cameras out (phones only in the Selfie room or a private room), and a dress-to-impress code that keeps the atmosphere elevated. New members are asked to arrive within an hour of opening for a tour; last entry is 11:00 p.m. and the club closes at 2:00 a.m.—details that help the staff protect the flow of the night while keeping standards consistent.
Membership is required for every visit (annual or monthly options), reservations are expected because the club can reach capacity, and single men are limited and must be sponsored—all of which keeps the crowd balanced and couple-friendly. If you’re new, expect a warm welcome, a guided orientation, and a space designed to make consent easy and the social energy feel effortless.
Why The Private Affair Appeals to Couples
- On-premise convenience (no venue change). TPA is expressly positioned as a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club, so couples who want the option to explore don’t have to relocate after social hours.
- Clear, consent-first culture. House rules put No Means No front and center and prohibit harassment, drugs, weapons, and any recording equipment—policies that make newcomers feel safer and regulars keep returning.
- Privacy-first phone policy. Phones may be on you but must stay put away everywhere except the Selfie Room or in a fully private room with the window covered—excellent for privacy-minded couples.
- New-member welcome & guided tour. First-timers are asked to arrive early and are escorted by a host couple for a tour and rules review, which lowers the learning curve and anxiety for new couples.
- Couple-centric crowd balance. TPA is 21+ and membership-based; new single men must be sponsored and accompanied on their first visit, which keeps the mix curated and comfortable for couples.
- BYOB value with real support. It’s strictly BYOB (no alcohol sales), and all alcohol is checked with the bar; you’ll find the usual free mixers/soft drinks and can tip bartenders for service—budget-friendly for a full date night.
- Locker & comfort amenities. Lockers are first-come, first-served (bring your own lock or get one with a $10 deposit), and there’s a designated smoking room with vaping allowed in club areas—small touches that make long nights easier.
- Reservations help keep the vibe right. The club can hit capacity and requires a reservation; even members can be turned away if they just show up—another signal that the environment is actively managed.
- Theme-night energy plus practical perks. Event listings frequently highlight hot-wife nights, dance-forward programming, mixers provided, and even details like lockers and host check-ins—a mix of fun and logistics that couples appreciate.
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Editor’s note for accuracy: When you publish an event-specific post, reconfirm the night’s admission mix, any single-male limits, and BYOB/check-in details on the live listing and TPA’s terms page, since operational notes (arrival time for tours, capacity, etc.) can change week-to-week.
About the Venue
Where it is & when it runs.
The Private Affair (TPA) sits on secluded private property at 255 Linton Run Rd, Port Deposit, MD 21904, a few minutes off I-95. Regular cadence: most Saturday socials start at 8:00 p.m.; select Friday specials start at 9:00 p.m. The club closes at 2:00 a.m. For smooth check-in—especially if it’s your first visit—arrive within an hour of opening; last entry is 11:00 p.m. and the door is locked after that.
Footprint, layout & vibe.
TPA operates as a private, members-only on-premise lifestyle club with roughly 10,000 sq ft of space: nightclub lighting, a DJ-led dance floor, lounge areas, and a separate playrooms zone so social spaces stay social. The atmosphere aims for upscale nightlife energy—dress to impress.
BYOB done right.
It’s strictly BYOB—no alcohol sales. Bring sealed beer/wine/liquor and check all alcohol at the bar on arrival. The club supplies complimentary soft drinks and mixers, and bartenders work for tips. You cannot store alcohol in lockers, and you must take all alcohol with you at close (anything left is discarded).
House policies that matter.
- 21+ membership required for entry; events also carry a separate door fee.
- Capacity is limited; reservations are required (walk-ups can be turned away even if you’re a member).
- Phones stay put away everywhere except the Selfie Room or a fully private room with the window covered.
- Smoking room on site; vaping allowed in club areas.
These policies are designed to keep the vibe comfortable, private, and adult-only.
Lockers, basics & amenities.
Lockers are first-come, first-served; bring your own lock or borrow one with a $10 deposit while supplies last. Expect a nightclub-style setup with lighting and pro DJs; plan for cash to tip bartenders.
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Membership snapshot (for context).
Membership is required to attend events; the site currently lists Annual $65 or 1-Month $25 options. Event fees vary by night/theme and are paid in addition to membership. Always confirm the price shown on the live event page before you publish.
Accuracy notes for your final draft: re-check the start time and last-entry time (11:00 p.m.) on the specific listing you’re covering; confirm the BYOB check-in language and membership fee display on the site, as those are the items most likely to change.
The Event (what to expect on the night you’re covering)
Event snapshot (fill in specifics):
- Event name & theme: [e.g., Neon Night / Masquerade / Holiday Social]
- Date & time: [MM/DD/YYYY]; Saturdays start 8:00 p.m., select Friday specials start 9:00 p.m.; club closes 2:00 a.m.
- Last entry: 11:00 p.m. hard cutoff; door locks after that; first-timers should arrive within 1 hour of opening for a guided tour.
- Who can attend: Members only (21+). Singles are allowed, but single men are limited, must be sponsored, and must be accompanied on their first visit. Define any caps in the live listing.
- Membership & reservations: Membership required and reservation strongly encouraged; the club can hit capacity and walk-ups may be turned away even if they’re members.
- Payment: If you didn’t prepay, door is cash-only (bring small bills for tips).
- BYOB: Bring sealed beer/wine/liquor; check all alcohol with the bar on arrival; mixers/soft drinks are complimentary; no alcohol in lockers; take all alcohol with you at close.
- Phones & privacy: Phones stay put away everywhere except the Selfie Room or a fully private room with the window covered. No cameras/recorders.
- Dress code (summary): Dress to impress (business casual/upscale); see the event page for any theme exceptions.
Theme & dress guidance (make this specific to your event):
Spell out what the theme means in practice (colors/attire, props, vibe). If the theme relaxes a normal rule, note it explicitly (e.g., a sporty theme may allow items that are otherwise restricted). Keep the overall look elevated to match the club’s “nightclub atmosphere” standard.
Schedule & flow (realistic timeline):
- 8:00–9:00 p.m. (or 9:00–10:00 p.m. on special Fridays): Check-in, ID/membership verification, first-timer tour with a host couple; stash items in a locker if desired. No re-entry once you go outside.
- 9:30 p.m.–12:00 a.m.: Dance floor fills; mingle, hydrate, and enjoy complimentary mixers at the bar (tip bartenders).
- 12:00–2:00 a.m.: Theme peaks; if you plan to explore the playroom zone, communicate boundaries first. The club closes at 2:00 a.m.; collect your alcohol (the club cannot store it).
Attendee mix & etiquette (callouts for your listing):
If the night lists a cap on single men, include the number and whether pre-approval is required. Remind everyone of the “No Means No” culture and that harassment, drugs, weapons, or recording are not permitted—violations may result in ejection or membership revocation.
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What to bring (quick checklist):
- Government-issued ID (21+ only) and membership/reservation confirmation.
- Cash for at-door payment (if not prepaid) and tips for bartenders.
- Sealed alcohol for BYOB (bar check-in enforced) + a small aftercare kit (mints, wipes, protection).
- Small lock for a locker (or get one from the bar with a $10 deposit, while supplies last).
Editor’s accuracy checklist (do this week-of):
- Confirm the start time and 11:00 p.m. last-entry on the specific event page.
- Pull the current door price for each attendee type from the live event listing.
- Note any single-male cap and sponsorship requirement for that night.
- Re-state BYOB check-in and no re-entry in your final copy.
Entry, Membership & Pricing
Who can attend & age rules.
The Private Affair (TPA) is a private, members-only lifestyle club for adults 21+. You must complete an application and be an approved member before attending any event. For admission/category purposes, a couple is defined as one male + one female; single memberships are available for single female, single male, or “single X” (matching the gender on your government ID).
Membership fees (separate from event fees).
Current membership options listed on the site are Annual: $65 or 1-Month: $25. Membership is required to attend events unless the specific listing says otherwise; event fees are additional and vary by night/theme.
How to join (step-by-step).
- Read the Terms/Club Rules; 2) Fill out the online membership application and upload a current face photo; 3) Wait for approval; 4) After approval, purchase membership and reserve an event through your account; 5) Arrive with valid government ID.
Reservations & capacity policy.
TPA can fill to capacity. Even if you are a member, you must have a reservation—walk-ups can be turned away at the door if the club is full.
Singles policy (important for entry).
Single females and single X members are welcome. New single males must be sponsored by a current couple or single female and must be accompanied by that sponsor on their first visit; events also limit the number of single males unless stated otherwise.
Door times & first-timer arrival.
Most Saturday socials start at 8:00 p.m. (select Friday specials start at 9:00 p.m.), and the club closes at 2:00 a.m. First-time visitors should arrive within one hour of opening for a required tour, and the last entry is 11:00 p.m. (hard cutoff)—the door is locked after that. No re-entry once you go outside.
How payment works.
If you didn’t prepay online, the door is cash-only; bring small bills for tips (bartenders work on tips). Membership fees can be paid when purchasing an event or separately through the membership page.
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BYOB check-in requirement (affects entry).
TPA is strictly BYOB—the club does not sell alcohol. All alcohol must be checked in with the bar staff when you arrive; you may not keep alcohol in lockers, and you must take all alcohol with you when you leave (anything left is discarded at closing).
Dress code reminder (enforced at entry).
The venue is dress-to-impress (business-casual/upscale). Examples of not allowed items include hats/do-rags (except dress cowboy/derby hats), hoodies, tank/muscle tops, sports jerseys, workout gear, uniforms, sneakers/work boots, and cut-offs/gym shorts. Theme nights may state specific exceptions.
Editor’s week-of checklist: 1) Pull the current event fee from that event’s listing; 2) reconfirm start time, last entry (11:00 p.m.), and no re-entry; 3) note any single-male cap and sponsorship reminder in the event copy; 4) verify your post reflects cash-only at door (if unpaid) and the BYOB bar check-in rules.
Dress Code & Etiquette
Official dress code (Dress to Impress).
TPA aims for a nightclub atmosphere and requires upscale, business-casual attire. Absolutely not allowed: hats or do-rags (only dress cowboy/derby hats are permitted), hoodies, tank/muscle tops, sports jerseys, workout or sweat/jogging gear, uniforms, sneakers or work boots, and cut-offs/gym shorts. Men should wear a nice shirt (preferably collared) with dress pants or clean fashionable jeans; dress/khaki shorts are acceptable in warmer months. Theme nights may provide specific exceptions, but the default code applies.
Consent-first conduct (“No Means No”).
The club’s cornerstone rule is No Means No. Pushy or harassing behavior isn’t tolerated; if advances are declined, you must stop and move on. Inappropriate or non-consensual touching, or disruptive conduct, can result in immediate removal and potential membership revocation. No drugs, no weapons, and no prostitution—even “joking” about it can lead to ejection under the rules.
Phone, camera & privacy rules.
Phones may be on your person but must stay put away everywhere except in the Selfie Room or a fully private room with the window covered. No cameras, video, or audio recording equipment may be used inside the premises. If someone can see your phone, you can’t have it out.
Smoking & vaping.
Smoking is permitted only in the designated smoking room; vaping/e-cigs are allowed throughout the club. Follow staff direction and posted signs.
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Entry etiquette that affects your night.
There is no re-entry once you step outside during the event, so bring everything you’ll need when you check in. First-time visitors should arrive within an hour of opening for a tour; last entry is 11:00 p.m. (door locks after that).
Guidance for single gentlemen (and anyone approaching couples).
Be a gentleman: introduce yourself to both partners, ask permission before any touch, accept “no” gracefully, and pay attention to non-verbal cues. Problems should be brought to staff/security—don’t create a scene. Hygiene and presentation matter; you only get one first impression.
Quick pre-arrival checklist.
- Outfit meets the dress-to-impress standard (no sneakers/work boots, jerseys, hoodies, etc.).
- Government ID and membership/reservation ready; plan to stay inside (no re-entry).
- Phone tucked away (Selfie Room/private room only for photos).
- Respect boundaries: No means no, no drugs, no weapons, no recording, no prostitution.
Editor’s week-of double-check: If your event is a theme night, confirm any explicit dress-code exceptions on the live listing before publishing, but keep the baseline code above unless the club states otherwise.
BYOB & What to Bring
How BYOB works at TPA.
- Strictly BYOB: The club does not sell alcohol. If you want to drink, bring your own sealed beer/wine/liquor. All alcohol must be checked in with the bar staff on arrival. You may not keep alcohol in lockers, and you must take all alcohol with you at closing (anything left is discarded).
- Mixers & setup: TPA provides soft drinks and mixers; bartenders are on duty and work for tips (plan cash).
Smart packing list for couples.
- Government-issued ID + membership/reservation confirmation (21+ only; membership required).
- Sealed alcohol for BYOB (hand it to the bar at check-in).
- Cash for at-door payment if you didn’t prepay (door is cash-only) and for bartender tips.
- Small lock for lockers (optional): bring your own or get one from the bar with a $10 deposit, first-come/while supplies last.
- Aftercare kit: mints, wipes, protection (condoms/dental dams), lip balm, deodorant—whatever helps you stay fresh.
- Phone plan: Keep phones put away everywhere except the Selfie Room or a fully private room with the window covered. No cameras/recorders allowed.
BYOB etiquette that keeps the night smooth.
- Label and track your bottle; never pour from someone else’s without permission.
- Tip your bartender—they’re tip-only; small bills help.
- Clean as you go around your table/locker area; staff and other guests will appreciate it.
Timing & re-entry (plan around this).
- First-timers: Arrive within one hour of opening for the required host-led tour.
- Last entry is 11:00 p.m. (hard cutoff); the door locks after that. There’s no re-entry once you go outside, so bring everything you’ll need when you first check in.
Lockers & smoking/vaping.
- Lockers: First-come, first-served. Bring a lock or borrow with $10 deposit; do not store alcohol in lockers (bar check-in only).
- Smoking/vaping: Smoking only in the designated smoking room; vaping/e-cigs are allowed throughout the club—follow staff direction and posted signs.
“Great site. Met some great people. Feel secure and private and safe with the site. Definitely recommend!” -Anguslove
Editor’s week-of checklist: Confirm the event’s posted start time, that last-entry 11:00 p.m. is unchanged, the cash-only door note (if unpaid), and re-state BYOB bar check-in and no re-entry in your final copy.
Getting There & Logistics
Exact address & area context.
The Private Affair (TPA) is at 255 Linton Run Rd, Port Deposit, MD 21904—a rural/private property setting just outside the Port Deposit town center.
Quick highway orientation.
- Nearest interstate: I-95 (Exit 93 to MD-222 Perryville/Port Deposit), then local roads to Linton Run Rd. Plan ~5–10 minutes from the exit, traffic permitting.
- Third-party club listings also note the venue is about 5 minutes from I-95, aligning with the exit above.
Airports (approx drive times in normal traffic).
- Wilmington (ILG): ~28 mi / ~40–45 min.
- Baltimore/Washington (BWI): ~52 mi / ~55–65 min.
- Philadelphia (PHL): ~50 mi / ~60–70 min.
- Reagan National (DCA): ~83–86 mi / ~1 hr 35–45 min.
- Dulles (IAD): ~85–104 mi / ~1 hr 35–45 min.
Rail & rideshare option (weekday-friendly).
- MARC Penn Line terminates at Perryville Station (the next town south). Service is commuter-focused; late-night options are limited. From Perryville, plan ~10–15 minutes by taxi/rideshare to TPA.
- MARC is the northern terminus here, with schedules set by MDOT MTA; always check the current timetable before planning a train connection.
Parking & approach.
- TPA sits on a private lane off Linton Run Rd. Because detailed parking instructions aren’t publicly posted, drive slowly on approach, follow on-site signs/staff direction, and arrive early (doors open 8:00 p.m. on most Saturdays; some Fridays 9:00 p.m.).
Door timing & re-entry (trip-critical).
- Last entry is 11:00 p.m. (hard cutoff) and there is no re-entry after you leave—plan your rides accordingly.
- Phones must stay put away everywhere except the Selfie Room or a fully private room with the window covered. If someone can see your phone, don’t take it out—so coordinate rideshare pick-up times before check-in.
From nearby cities (drive time ballparks).
- Baltimore → TPA: ~47–52 miles, ~55–60 minutes.
- Washington, DC → TPA: ~80–86 miles, ~1 hr 40–45 minutes.
Pro tips for smooth arrival.
- Bring government ID (21+) and your membership/reservation confirmation for the door.
- Budget more time for rural night driving and to complete first-timer check-in/tour soon after opening.
- Because of no re-entry and the phone policy, pre-schedule your ride home (or designate a driver) before you go inside.
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Editor’s accuracy checklist (week-of): Reconfirm the event’s start time, last-entry 11:00 p.m., any special instructions on parking/approach included on that specific event page, and the phone/no-re-entry rules above.
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